7 tools to create eating awareness

do you ever turn to chocolate cake when you want to shut out the world and forget all of your problems?

do you ever hibernate under the covers with a bag of cheetos when you have reached your limit with everything and everyone?

do you ever stuff yourself with too much lasagna at the dinner table, way beyond the point of satisfaction, in order to numb away all those lingering fears and doubts?

do you ever get FED UP with these pseudo-solutions?

do you ever wonder how you can BREAK FREE from these destructive eating habits that have dominated your life for so long?
 
 
well . . . it isn’t easy, is it?
and the road ahead seems so long and difficult.

i realize this.
that’s why i start very slowly with my clients.
i ask them one simple question to encourage them to begin their journey.
and i’ll ask you too.
here and now.

what can you do to become more AWARE?
more aware of your movements, your surroundings, your experiences.
more aware of your body, your thoughts, your eating.
more aware of yourself.

i’d like to share seven simple awareness tools that can get you started in the right direction.
 
please keep in mind that these tools are only a start though.
i’m not offering you the promise of a full recovery in one easy lesson.
i’m giving you a glimpse of the hope that awaits you when you decide to make a change.
 
however . . .
one step leads to a next step which leads to a series of steps.
and before you know it . . .
you’re on an exhilarating roller-coaster ride to abundant health and wellness!

 

so, without further ado, here are 7 tools that will increase your awareness today:
 
 
1. find a pretty notebook to use as your new daily awareness journal. this may seem strange at first, but stick with it and notice the patterns that emerge. things to include:

  • the foods you’re eating
  • the times of the day that you’re eating
  • your movement/exercise throughout the day
  • your feelings before, during, and after eating
  • your thoughts before, during, and after eating
  • your awareness of portions
  • your awareness of comfort foods
  • the activities that you used to enjoy but notice you’re no longer doing
  • the times that you wanted to eat but chose not to
  • your hunger cues
  • your satiety cues

 

 
 
2. listen to your body:

  • what is it telling you?
  • what does your body (not your mind) crave?
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3. stock your kitchen with healthy foods that you like to eat. although i personally don’t think that anything should be completely off limits:

  • certain foods are obviously better for us than others – put those in front of you
  • some processed foods can actually increase our cravings and interfere with our bodies’ natural signals

 
 
4. ask yourself “am i hungry?” before you take a bite of food:

  • if the answer is NO, find a way to distract yourself
  • or take your first step down the bravery trail and think about facing what is really going on
  • of course, you can always eat whether the answer is yes or no
  • but by stopping to ask yourself the question . . . you delay going to the food, you become more aware of your actions, and you engage in less “fog eating”

 

 
 
5. squeeze in 10 minutes of movement each day:

  • you could take a short walk
  • or do a few strength exercises with a resistance band
  • anything that gets you up and moving

 
 
6. snap your wrist with a rubber band every time you catch yourself thinking a negative thought:

  • remember the cognitive-behavioral mantra thoughts > feelings > behaviors (so those thoughts need to be healthy ones – they control it all!)
  • the goal is to replace inappropriate, self-defeating thoughts with positive, realistic, helpful ones

 

 
 
7. actively seek out 5 new things each day:

  • discover something unique and interesting about your everyday life every day
  • never stop learning and reaching and growing

 
 
i hope you enjoy exploring and experimenting with these awareness tools.
(i dare you to attempt all seven in one day!)

but i understand if this all seems a bit overwhelming right now.
(and even if a doughnut sounds better!)

if that’s the case, approach the tools in a deliberate, mindful manner.
one by one.
perhaps one per day, for seven days.
with full awareness.

and please don’t start telling yourself you must do everything perfectly right away!
(remember the rubber band in #6?)
these are simply tips to utilize when and if you need them.
they are designed to make you more aware and less likely to eat unconsciously.
(because we both know you’re never going to find the answer you’re seeking in the ice cream container.)

mindfulness.
a crucial, yet doable, first step when addressing the issue of emotional eating.
and it is with small steps that we begin our journeys.
the goal is to keep moving forward.
progress, not perfection, is the key to staying motivated.
change is usually a bumpy path.
and it is rarely straight.
expect setbacks, but don’t let them completely derail you.
just begin again where you left off.

and you can start over as many times as you need to.
follow your own itinerary.
plot your own voyage.

 

“One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things.”
(Henry Miller)
 
 
 
 
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20 Responses to 7 tools to create eating awareness

  1. Awesome! Awareness is difficult to master but so worth it. Great post.

  2. This is so great. I believe that the key to eating right is awareness and this is not spoken about enough because everyone is trying to shove their solution down your throat. Thank you for this fresh perspective.

  3. Shari says:

    Love #7! 🙂 Thanks for sharing. Always need this reminder. xo

  4. Lorena says:

    I am a coca cola addict– nowadays before I recognize the craving, I recognize the feeling and I have my refrigerator filled with seltzer water.
    Great advice, I am definitely looking forward to journaling more!

  5. Caylie Price says:

    I’ve got plenty of learning and practice to do but I really like how your post breaks down the overwhelm and simplifies.

  6. Alanna says:

    Fantastic post and great tips!! Thank you for sharing!!

  7. I love this idea! Defitely want to start an awareness journal now. I’m not as interested in my eating habits though, so I think I’ll remove that and add something related to work/life balance. Just gotta figure out what….

    • April Lee says:

      so glad that you brought this up, angie! although i focused on eating in this post, the daily awareness journal can be a powerful tool for so many different aspects of our lives. thanks for sharing.

  8. Fantastic blog. Awareness is KEY for me, I get so busy it’s so easy to be distracted and find myself not as prepared as I would like to be. Thanks!

  9. April, this is such a great reminder of consciousness in everything, not just eating! I love the tips you provide here. As a single person, I realize sometimes it’s difficult for me to be conscious when eating alone, so I try to create a ritual, sitting AT the table, candles, etc. But it’s easy to get off track, which is why I loved that your post reminded me of why it’s important to do it! Thanks so much!

    • April Lee says:

      i completely agree, mindy. though i concentrated on eating in this blog post, any of these tips can be utilized in a life well led – being aware, learning new things, watching our negative thoughts, etc. thanks for visiting!

  10. Carrie says:

    Thank you for all the wonderful tips!

    I do stuff my face when I am bored. I do over eat when I am depressed. I just never noticed how much I actually rely on food until now. It’s sad. I wish I could break away and cure my addiction for food.

    • April Lee says:

      thanks for sharing, carrie. i am so sorry to hear that you are experiencing this common, but painful, internal conflict. i encourage you to apply some of the tips i’ve outlined to your daily life. if you still find yourself struggling, please think about reaching out to someone for additional help (i am available for coaching in this area). i do believe that you CAN break away and cure your addiction to food. be brave, take that next step.

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